There are many ways that first kiss can go terribly wrong, but most are easily avoided.
BEWARE:
Moving too quickly
Be careful not to startle the kiss - watch and wait for the signal to proceed. If you aren't sensitive in your kissing, how empathetic and caring can you be about the rest of the relationship...
Wet, sloshy, squishy, fishy
If you or the kissee need to wipe your lips, or chin, dry after the kiss - well, it wasn't 'perfect' was it?
Smash-mouth smothering kiss of death
Avoid the over-passionate, insensitive kiss that leaves the kissee gasping for air.
Chapped, Cactus Lips
There's a delicate balance to lip moisture equation. The last thing you want to do is drool on your partner, but you definitely don't want to leave scars with crispy, chafed lips.
Too much Tongue and Too Much, Too Soon
Keep that tongue tucked away until you get the right signals, then apply with caution - later
Dragon Breath
A mint or two, breath saver, gum, spray - anything to get rid of gunk-mouth.
Weak, Wobbly or Wooden Passionless Pecks
The swoop in and bounce out kiss is simply meaningless - unless you want to impart a "let's just sort-of be friends" type of message.
Smacking, Clacking Loud Kisses
The old "clack and smack" kills romance in a flash.
Friday, March 14, 2008
Step by step for passionate first kiss
Getting Cleared for Takeoff
Key Elements: Eye Contact, Facial Expression
It's always best to avoid the 'ambush' kiss (although these can be exciting as your relationship progresses). By looking into your partner's eyes, you will be not only sending the message that you like them and want to be closer to them, but you will be receiving messages as well.
A warm, kind smile (even a slight smile is good, it doesn't have to be BIG) is what you want to see and what you want your partner to see to get the green light. Just as important as the look on his/her face is where he or she is looking.
While looking down may be a sign of shyness rather than lack of interest, glancing away, or even worse, noticing someone else, indicates that this is definitely not the right time, right place or, perhaps, not even the right person. First, read a article for learning to kiss.
Final Instrument Check
Key Elements: Closeness, Alignment, Physical Touch
As you move closer to that magical kiss, you don't want to be leaning forward awkwardly to get there. Not only will moving closer send signals to your partner, but you want your body to be in a comfortable position during the kiss, so you can enjoy every moment of it.
You may want to actually touch the person just before the kiss. While a hand lightly on the face is a definite signal of intimacy, even holding hands combined with eye contact and a warm look can get your 'flight' confirmed. Just like taxiing onto the runway, you want to make sure you are aligned correctly at this point. This means not only getting your lips on track with theirs, but getting the head tilted correctly as well.
If you tilt your head slightly to one side first, your partner will likely react and tilt the other way. Watch for their tilt as well- if they've beaten you to the tilt, simply lean your head the other way and begin to move in.
Down the Runway (the point of no return)
Key Elements: Relaxed lips, Closed eyes - prepare for your feet to leave the ground!
You won't need the speed of a 747 to get off the ground. Move in slowly, so that you don't end up embarrassingly banging heads, or lips. During step number two you made sure the two of you were aligned correctly, and now you can close your eyes as you're just about to make contact. Your lips should be relaxed, not tightly pressed together. You want your partner to have the pleasant experience of feeling your lips softly against theirs, no matter whether you're a guy or a girl.
A First kiss isn't a time for a guy to prove his strength, or machismo. Your lips should be recently moistened, but not wet. For guys, don't lick your lips right before you go in for the kiss. You want them dry, but not dried out- get it? It's always best to keep a stick of lip balm handy with you when you think some kissing might be in your near future. Prior conditioning can go a long way when the actual moment arrives.
For girls, hopefully you didn't just apply your candy apple red Marilyn Monroe lipstick. Lip gloss, lightly applied, or a small amount of lipstick can both keep your lips looking kissable, and appropriately moist.
Gaining Momentum
Key Elements: Relaxed lips, Head tilt, Breathing
As you are moving in, you can part your lips slightly just before contact. Keep your lips relaxed, tension-free jaw, the tongue in the hangar. Remember to keep the head tilted so both of you can still breathe comfortably (through your noses) on contact and as the perfect kiss is held. Prepare to savor every moment ... slowly, gently, easily...
We Have Liftoff!
Key Elements: A Soft Touch and Gradual Adjustments
Now you have first contact. For a first kiss, keep it sweet. Not too long and not wet. Be sure not to pull away too quickly or make any sudden movements. Savor. Savor. Savor. Often, people describe that first kiss in a relationship as falling into a slow motion movie. Enjoy the moment! It's not critical here whether your upper and lower lip are aligned with theirs, you can be slightly above or below, and in future kisses, you'll be able to experiment with different 'flying' styles!
Mmmmmmm. PERFECT.
Cruising Altitude!
Key Elements: Don't rush things, Eye contact, Non verbal messages (and verbal, too)
As the Perfect Kiss ends, pull away slowly and make eye contact once again. That satisfied, warm smile will send all sorts of positive signals to your kissing partner. At this point, both of you could be feeling a little 'light headed,' rather than airsick. Enjoy the closeness, relax, and you can even finish the kiss with a warm embrace.
A few words, such as, 'That was nice', can be whispered. Your partner may be just as nervous about as you about the kiss and closeness, and letting them know how you really feel with a little positive reinforcement always helps.
Beware! Your first kiss might go terribly wrong.
Key Elements: Eye Contact, Facial Expression
It's always best to avoid the 'ambush' kiss (although these can be exciting as your relationship progresses). By looking into your partner's eyes, you will be not only sending the message that you like them and want to be closer to them, but you will be receiving messages as well.
A warm, kind smile (even a slight smile is good, it doesn't have to be BIG) is what you want to see and what you want your partner to see to get the green light. Just as important as the look on his/her face is where he or she is looking.
While looking down may be a sign of shyness rather than lack of interest, glancing away, or even worse, noticing someone else, indicates that this is definitely not the right time, right place or, perhaps, not even the right person. First, read a article for learning to kiss.
Final Instrument Check
Key Elements: Closeness, Alignment, Physical Touch
As you move closer to that magical kiss, you don't want to be leaning forward awkwardly to get there. Not only will moving closer send signals to your partner, but you want your body to be in a comfortable position during the kiss, so you can enjoy every moment of it.
You may want to actually touch the person just before the kiss. While a hand lightly on the face is a definite signal of intimacy, even holding hands combined with eye contact and a warm look can get your 'flight' confirmed. Just like taxiing onto the runway, you want to make sure you are aligned correctly at this point. This means not only getting your lips on track with theirs, but getting the head tilted correctly as well.
If you tilt your head slightly to one side first, your partner will likely react and tilt the other way. Watch for their tilt as well- if they've beaten you to the tilt, simply lean your head the other way and begin to move in.
Down the Runway (the point of no return)Key Elements: Relaxed lips, Closed eyes - prepare for your feet to leave the ground!
You won't need the speed of a 747 to get off the ground. Move in slowly, so that you don't end up embarrassingly banging heads, or lips. During step number two you made sure the two of you were aligned correctly, and now you can close your eyes as you're just about to make contact. Your lips should be relaxed, not tightly pressed together. You want your partner to have the pleasant experience of feeling your lips softly against theirs, no matter whether you're a guy or a girl.
A First kiss isn't a time for a guy to prove his strength, or machismo. Your lips should be recently moistened, but not wet. For guys, don't lick your lips right before you go in for the kiss. You want them dry, but not dried out- get it? It's always best to keep a stick of lip balm handy with you when you think some kissing might be in your near future. Prior conditioning can go a long way when the actual moment arrives.
For girls, hopefully you didn't just apply your candy apple red Marilyn Monroe lipstick. Lip gloss, lightly applied, or a small amount of lipstick can both keep your lips looking kissable, and appropriately moist.
Gaining Momentum
Key Elements: Relaxed lips, Head tilt, Breathing
As you are moving in, you can part your lips slightly just before contact. Keep your lips relaxed, tension-free jaw, the tongue in the hangar. Remember to keep the head tilted so both of you can still breathe comfortably (through your noses) on contact and as the perfect kiss is held. Prepare to savor every moment ... slowly, gently, easily...
We Have Liftoff!
Key Elements: A Soft Touch and Gradual Adjustments
Now you have first contact. For a first kiss, keep it sweet. Not too long and not wet. Be sure not to pull away too quickly or make any sudden movements. Savor. Savor. Savor. Often, people describe that first kiss in a relationship as falling into a slow motion movie. Enjoy the moment! It's not critical here whether your upper and lower lip are aligned with theirs, you can be slightly above or below, and in future kisses, you'll be able to experiment with different 'flying' styles!
Mmmmmmm. PERFECT.
Cruising Altitude!
Key Elements: Don't rush things, Eye contact, Non verbal messages (and verbal, too)
As the Perfect Kiss ends, pull away slowly and make eye contact once again. That satisfied, warm smile will send all sorts of positive signals to your kissing partner. At this point, both of you could be feeling a little 'light headed,' rather than airsick. Enjoy the closeness, relax, and you can even finish the kiss with a warm embrace.
A few words, such as, 'That was nice', can be whispered. Your partner may be just as nervous about as you about the kiss and closeness, and letting them know how you really feel with a little positive reinforcement always helps.
Beware! Your first kiss might go terribly wrong.
Favourite Kiss Quotes
It was brief, swift, and then it was done. It was a professional job. I needed to be kissed, and I was kissed.Actress Uma Thurman
This girl said "Yes" when I wasn't ready. I kissed her lightly and got so dizzy I had to sit down.
Actor Antonio Banderas
We are all mortal until the first kiss and the second glass of wine.
Eduardo Galeano
Eduardo Galeano
A man snatches the first kiss, pleads for the second, demands the third, takes the fourth, accepts the fifth - and endures all the rest.
Helen Rowland
The first kiss is stolen by the man; the last is begged by the woman.
Henry Louis Mencken
If you kiss on the first date and it's not right, then there will be no second date. Sometimes it's better to hold out and not kiss for a long time. I am a strong believer in kissing being very intimate, and the minute you kiss, the floodgates open for everything else.
Jennifer Lopez
Jennifer Lopez
Questions for first kiss
We get so many questions about our first kiss. We are too anxious about our first kiss as any unknown thing can be scary. We've all seen people kiss, either in movies, TV shows or in real life. We want to know how exactly is it done? How do we get over the nervousness and have the perfect kiss?
The first step for the perfect kiss is indeed very difficult, because the first step is finding the one to be kissed. In order to experience a truly wonderful first kiss, it must be done with someone we really care about. Someone whom we've been thinking about day and night. Someone who makes our heart beat faster, and make emotions melt. Kissing the one you love makes it more enjoyable and sensual. Otherwise it's just another kiss and that is boring. So do not kiss someone just to say you've been kissed. Kiss someone that really means something to us.
When Is The Best Time For A First Kiss?
The best time is when the two of you are saying good-bye. This is probably the easiest and most comfortable because it's usually the time when a kiss is expected. It is OK to kiss someone on the first date. This shows that you really enjoy being with this person and want to see them again. But it's not absolutely mandatory that you kiss on the first date. If you miss the opportunity during the first date, definitely make an effort by the second, or at the latest the third. If after that you still haven't kissed then the other person may wonder if you really enjoy being with them. Also, make sure that the two of you are alone to have some privacy during this exciting moment, with no distractions or interruptions.
How Will I Know If That Person Wants To Be Kissed?
You can usually tell by how well the date is going. If there was flirting involved and a sense of romance or passion in the date, then by all means go for it. But if things are matter of fact and the other person seems a bit disinterested in the whole thing, then I would wait until the second date. Also, if there is lots of eye contact and closeness between the two of you, this is a good sign that the other person would like to be kissed.
What Type Of Kiss Should We Use The First Time?
I would suggest starting off slowly. You don't want to scare them away the first time with a lot of tongue and saliva. You want the kiss to be gentle yet exciting. You can do this by approaching with a close-mouthed kiss or a tongueless kiss. Let the kiss be gentle and let it linger. Let the other person yearn for more so that they will be in dire need of another kiss from you the next time the two of you are together.
Will The Other Person Know It's My First Time?
Not at all. Because everyone has a different style and way of kissing. Also, some people are more into strong, passionate kisses while others prefer to start off gently. You won't know what style that person has until you've kissed them a few times, and vice versa. Also, once you've kissed someone a few times your kisses start to meld together, meaning that your styles start to intertwine with one another's. That especially happens when one person didn't realize it was enjoyable to kiss a certain way until they tried it with that person. So then they change their style to this new technique.
How Do I Approach The First Kiss?
This can be done in one of two ways. You can either just do it or you can ask/demand a kiss. Asking for a kiss is gentlemanly but not romantic. After the date is over, when the two of you are alone, tell her/him what a good time you had. Then say something like, "Is it OK if I give you a kiss good-bye?" Of course the other person will know what to expect but it's not very romantic.
But you can demand a kiss. You can say something like, "I'd like to kiss you goodnight" or something along that line. More appropriate I believe.
Just doing it is the best and most romantic way of having the first kiss. It shows that you have enough feelings for that person that you just HAVE to kiss them! The best approach for this is the slow and gentle approach. You're standing in front of them as you're saying good-bye. Then take a step or two towards them, hold their hands in yours and lean towards them. Then give them a gentle, lingering, close-mouthed kiss. An even more romantic approach is to cup their face in your hands. This is extremely exciting when the guy does this to the girl.
First kiss shown in a movie.
How Long Should A First Kiss Last?
A first kiss should only last a few moments. Don't worry about the exact time. Once your lips have touched the other person's lips then give it a few seconds and end the kiss. To end the kiss just gently close your mouth and pull away gently.
If you get carried away and find that you've lost track of time and the kiss is still continuing then that is OK. As long as the other person is reciprocating in the kiss the kiss can continue for as long as you wish.
The first step for the perfect kiss is indeed very difficult, because the first step is finding the one to be kissed. In order to experience a truly wonderful first kiss, it must be done with someone we really care about. Someone whom we've been thinking about day and night. Someone who makes our heart beat faster, and make emotions melt. Kissing the one you love makes it more enjoyable and sensual. Otherwise it's just another kiss and that is boring. So do not kiss someone just to say you've been kissed. Kiss someone that really means something to us.
When Is The Best Time For A First Kiss?
The best time is when the two of you are saying good-bye. This is probably the easiest and most comfortable because it's usually the time when a kiss is expected. It is OK to kiss someone on the first date. This shows that you really enjoy being with this person and want to see them again. But it's not absolutely mandatory that you kiss on the first date. If you miss the opportunity during the first date, definitely make an effort by the second, or at the latest the third. If after that you still haven't kissed then the other person may wonder if you really enjoy being with them. Also, make sure that the two of you are alone to have some privacy during this exciting moment, with no distractions or interruptions.
How Will I Know If That Person Wants To Be Kissed?
You can usually tell by how well the date is going. If there was flirting involved and a sense of romance or passion in the date, then by all means go for it. But if things are matter of fact and the other person seems a bit disinterested in the whole thing, then I would wait until the second date. Also, if there is lots of eye contact and closeness between the two of you, this is a good sign that the other person would like to be kissed.
What Type Of Kiss Should We Use The First Time?
I would suggest starting off slowly. You don't want to scare them away the first time with a lot of tongue and saliva. You want the kiss to be gentle yet exciting. You can do this by approaching with a close-mouthed kiss or a tongueless kiss. Let the kiss be gentle and let it linger. Let the other person yearn for more so that they will be in dire need of another kiss from you the next time the two of you are together.
Will The Other Person Know It's My First Time?
Not at all. Because everyone has a different style and way of kissing. Also, some people are more into strong, passionate kisses while others prefer to start off gently. You won't know what style that person has until you've kissed them a few times, and vice versa. Also, once you've kissed someone a few times your kisses start to meld together, meaning that your styles start to intertwine with one another's. That especially happens when one person didn't realize it was enjoyable to kiss a certain way until they tried it with that person. So then they change their style to this new technique.
How Do I Approach The First Kiss?
This can be done in one of two ways. You can either just do it or you can ask/demand a kiss. Asking for a kiss is gentlemanly but not romantic. After the date is over, when the two of you are alone, tell her/him what a good time you had. Then say something like, "Is it OK if I give you a kiss good-bye?" Of course the other person will know what to expect but it's not very romantic.
But you can demand a kiss. You can say something like, "I'd like to kiss you goodnight" or something along that line. More appropriate I believe.
Just doing it is the best and most romantic way of having the first kiss. It shows that you have enough feelings for that person that you just HAVE to kiss them! The best approach for this is the slow and gentle approach. You're standing in front of them as you're saying good-bye. Then take a step or two towards them, hold their hands in yours and lean towards them. Then give them a gentle, lingering, close-mouthed kiss. An even more romantic approach is to cup their face in your hands. This is extremely exciting when the guy does this to the girl.
First kiss shown in a movie.
How Long Should A First Kiss Last?
A first kiss should only last a few moments. Don't worry about the exact time. Once your lips have touched the other person's lips then give it a few seconds and end the kiss. To end the kiss just gently close your mouth and pull away gently.
If you get carried away and find that you've lost track of time and the kiss is still continuing then that is OK. As long as the other person is reciprocating in the kiss the kiss can continue for as long as you wish.
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
Questions on Kissing
At which age we start kissing?
There is no age limit for kissing. You can kiss from any age. These days people start kissing in younger ages. But you should kiss when you feel to kiss. This is the most important thing in kissing.
Is it OK to kiss on the first date?
I think it is OK to kiss on the first date. I wouldn't consider making out on the first date, but a good-bye kiss is nice.
How can I spice up my kissing?
There are many kissing styles. You can use any of them according to your taste. First start with simple kiss and go to advanced mode as you gain experience. You can invent your own style of romantic kissing. Also you can kiss different parts of the body for sensual feelings. You can also read the stories of first kiss, romance and love, in advance of kissing to feel more sensual romance.
My boyfriend has a long tongue and he sticks it all the way down my throat. What should I do?
Be honest to yourself and him. Tell him honestly that you would prefer to be kissed with less tongue. That you enjoy the feel of the tip of the tongue. Otherwise, if you don't tell him how will he know? Tell him that you also want some variety and that you found some different types of kisses in this site and would like to try them out. The kiss you are having is similar to French kiss.
I feel like when I am kissing my boyfriend that I breathe too loud on his cheek. Is that normal?
Yes it is absolutely normal. You need not worry.
I'm afraid to kiss my boyfriend because my nose is too big, and it might get in the way and that would be embarrassing. What should I do?
You shouldn't worry about it. Your nose won't get in the way because your heads will be slightly tilted so that the noses won't bump straight on. And even people who have small noses bump occasionally so don't sweat it. Just enjoy it!
I'm a teenager and I haven't been kissed. I have a little sister who is 12 and is already kissing. I am worried about her. Is that the right age to be kissing at?
I think that is pretty young to be kissing, but it seems that these days they're starting younger and younger. Don't compare your inexperience with your sister's experience. Everybody has their first experience at different ages in their lives. I've even had people in their 20's tell me they haven't kissed before. So you're not alone in thinking that you should have kissed by now. There is no age when you should be experiencing your first kiss. When you meet someone right for you who you really care about and who cares about you, that is when you should be having your first kiss. So don't worry. It will happen. And chances are your little sister isn't telling you the whole truth, either.
There is no age limit for kissing. You can kiss from any age. These days people start kissing in younger ages. But you should kiss when you feel to kiss. This is the most important thing in kissing.
Is it OK to kiss on the first date?
I think it is OK to kiss on the first date. I wouldn't consider making out on the first date, but a good-bye kiss is nice.
How can I spice up my kissing?
There are many kissing styles. You can use any of them according to your taste. First start with simple kiss and go to advanced mode as you gain experience. You can invent your own style of romantic kissing. Also you can kiss different parts of the body for sensual feelings. You can also read the stories of first kiss, romance and love, in advance of kissing to feel more sensual romance.
My boyfriend has a long tongue and he sticks it all the way down my throat. What should I do?
Be honest to yourself and him. Tell him honestly that you would prefer to be kissed with less tongue. That you enjoy the feel of the tip of the tongue. Otherwise, if you don't tell him how will he know? Tell him that you also want some variety and that you found some different types of kisses in this site and would like to try them out. The kiss you are having is similar to French kiss.
I feel like when I am kissing my boyfriend that I breathe too loud on his cheek. Is that normal?
Yes it is absolutely normal. You need not worry.
I'm afraid to kiss my boyfriend because my nose is too big, and it might get in the way and that would be embarrassing. What should I do?
You shouldn't worry about it. Your nose won't get in the way because your heads will be slightly tilted so that the noses won't bump straight on. And even people who have small noses bump occasionally so don't sweat it. Just enjoy it!
I'm a teenager and I haven't been kissed. I have a little sister who is 12 and is already kissing. I am worried about her. Is that the right age to be kissing at?
I think that is pretty young to be kissing, but it seems that these days they're starting younger and younger. Don't compare your inexperience with your sister's experience. Everybody has their first experience at different ages in their lives. I've even had people in their 20's tell me they haven't kissed before. So you're not alone in thinking that you should have kissed by now. There is no age when you should be experiencing your first kiss. When you meet someone right for you who you really care about and who cares about you, that is when you should be having your first kiss. So don't worry. It will happen. And chances are your little sister isn't telling you the whole truth, either.
First kiss Preparation
Don't let nerves ruin your first kiss. Kiss for the first time the way you always imagined.
Imagine
Don't worry. We've all got an in-built ability to kiss - even primates do it. So it's a natural phenomenon,a bit like breathing, that is difficult to get wrong, and takes a surprisingly little amount of thought.
Evolution and Mother Nature are on your side - a powerful combination, when all that's going against you are a few nerves, and maybe bad breath. Get yourself in the right frame of mind. Instead of dwelling on potential problems, imagine everything going really well. And when the big moment arrives your positive thinking will take over.
Make it happen
Shyness is a natural part of your first kiss, and this will only be made more embarrassing by having an audience. Do what you can to escape sniggering friends and find some privacy.
If you're so shy you find it difficult to even be near the person you secretly like, think of various kissing related games, such as 'spin the bottle' - where you spin a bottle on the ground, and whoever it points at, you must kiss. Or play Sardines, which doesn't involve kissing, but gives you the chance to seek out the person you want to kiss and hide with them. If it's December, use Christmas to your advantage and grab some mistletoe.
The signs
Try not to worry about rejection, because by looking for certain signs, you can decipher the other person's feelings. If they're gazing into your eyes and smiling, there's a good chance they'll be receptive to a kiss.
Teasing, making jokes, and giving you a lot of attention are also good signs. If you want someone to kiss you, give them a clue by flirting and getting close physically. Find an excuse to touch them. If they're still reticent, simply tell them you want to kiss them. Even if they're not interested, they'll be flattered, and it's very unlikely they'll run away screaming.
If things go wrong
So your confidence hasn't failed you, but what if your technique does? Well hopefully it won't if you've read article 'How to Kiss Someone Passionately'. But as it's your first time, things may not go exactly according to plan. So you might find you end up banging teeth, or getting a bit too sloppy. If any of this happens, just laugh it off... and if the other person is cruel about it, they're probably not worth kissing anyway.
Imagine
Don't worry. We've all got an in-built ability to kiss - even primates do it. So it's a natural phenomenon,a bit like breathing, that is difficult to get wrong, and takes a surprisingly little amount of thought.
Evolution and Mother Nature are on your side - a powerful combination, when all that's going against you are a few nerves, and maybe bad breath. Get yourself in the right frame of mind. Instead of dwelling on potential problems, imagine everything going really well. And when the big moment arrives your positive thinking will take over.
Make it happen
Shyness is a natural part of your first kiss, and this will only be made more embarrassing by having an audience. Do what you can to escape sniggering friends and find some privacy.
If you're so shy you find it difficult to even be near the person you secretly like, think of various kissing related games, such as 'spin the bottle' - where you spin a bottle on the ground, and whoever it points at, you must kiss. Or play Sardines, which doesn't involve kissing, but gives you the chance to seek out the person you want to kiss and hide with them. If it's December, use Christmas to your advantage and grab some mistletoe.
The signs
Try not to worry about rejection, because by looking for certain signs, you can decipher the other person's feelings. If they're gazing into your eyes and smiling, there's a good chance they'll be receptive to a kiss.
Teasing, making jokes, and giving you a lot of attention are also good signs. If you want someone to kiss you, give them a clue by flirting and getting close physically. Find an excuse to touch them. If they're still reticent, simply tell them you want to kiss them. Even if they're not interested, they'll be flattered, and it's very unlikely they'll run away screaming.
If things go wrong
So your confidence hasn't failed you, but what if your technique does? Well hopefully it won't if you've read article 'How to Kiss Someone Passionately'. But as it's your first time, things may not go exactly according to plan. So you might find you end up banging teeth, or getting a bit too sloppy. If any of this happens, just laugh it off... and if the other person is cruel about it, they're probably not worth kissing anyway.
Play games while kissing
Lollipop Kiss
Take your partner and gently pull her close to you. Lick her bottom lip, and proceed to french kiss her. Then when she needs to take a breath, cause most girls and guys need a break anyways, grab her tongue ever so gently with your lips and run them over it. Suck your partner's tongue like a lollipop.
Get a great tasting lollipop. While you two are enjoying the movie, or some show or anything, suck the lollipop in turn. In the middle, however don't give it to your partner. Your partner has to get it from your mouth.
Marco Polo Kiss
First one of you need to figure out who's marco and who's polo. Then you play the game like Marco and polo. Except instead of just touching them, you have to embrace them in your arms and kiss him/her. It's great fun.
Dive Gear Kiss
While diving in a pool, one person wears a diving mask and the other person has to close their eyes and hold on to the mask-wearing person really close. Then trade the inhaling part of the dive gear. Take a deep breath and take the inhaler part away. Kiss the person wherever or however you like, then switch places. This should only be done with some one you truly trust would not hurt you.
Steam Kiss
You or your partner drink a very hot drink while the other drinks a very icy cold one and see if there's some steam. It's fun because if it doesn't work, just keep trying!
Who Lasts Longer Kiss
Sit very close to each other, your lips almost touching, arms where you please. Sit like this, very close, and see who can go the longest without kissing the other. It's great fun, because you can lose on purpose and still win!
Do What You Want Kiss
This is always fun. One of you just lies there, and the other does whatever he or she wants to give pleasure. Then, you switch roles. See who can give the most satisfying kiss, with the other not participating at all.
Pepper Kiss
Take a hot pepper and roll it on your lips then kiss your partner. It give the kiss a kick. (Note use peppers as hot as you or your partner can take, but not too hot or it will just burn and ruin the kiss.)
Lip Venom
Before you go to kiss your partner, apply lip venom to your lips when he isn't looking. Lip venom is a safe cosmetic item that you can buy at Scarlets and other cosmetic stores and what it does is it draws the blood to your lips, making them red and tingly. A little bit goes a very long way and can still be passed up until probably about a half an hour after applying. When your partner kisses you, he will have this sensual feeling running through his lips for the rest of the day
Candy Kiss
Use some type of hard candy/mint, a great tasting candy is perfect. Either you or your partner place the candy in your/their mouth and then it is like a game of keep away. Whoever starts tries to keep the candy in their mouth while the other person tries to get it in theirs. But you can only use your tongue and lips. This can be very fun if you have the right partner!!! Enjoy.
The Tickle Kiss
In this kiss you make use of the fact that the roof of the mouth is the most ticklish part of the body. Begin a normal French kiss and (be sure your partner understands the game) stroke your tongue across the roof of each other's mouth. This will create almost unbearable chills down your spine and the winner is the person who can stand them because the loser pulls away. The best part about this kiss is that it is different every time and always fun.
Name Kiss
If u have run out of things to do with your tongue spell your name. This works very well and everyone likes
it!
Tongue Wars
Each person tries to get their tongue in the other persons mouth while they try to get their tongue in your mouth. Each person "blocks" the other persons tongue with theirs. The winner gets to pick the next type of kiss. This game is great for reliving first make-out tension.
Starburst Trick
Out a starburst in your mouth, and while French kissing try to unwrap it! Enjoy!
Ring Kiss
What you do is take a ring off your finger and put it on your tongue. Then while you and your partner are French kissing, he tries to slip it on the tip of his tongue! It is a lot of fun!
Tongue Tease
When you're French kissing, if/when you pull back, and before your mouths meet again, you can flick your tongue up and down quickly against the other person who is doing the same. It's very teasing and fun to see how long it lasts. Its hard to resist going strong after a while of flicking.
Take your partner and gently pull her close to you. Lick her bottom lip, and proceed to french kiss her. Then when she needs to take a breath, cause most girls and guys need a break anyways, grab her tongue ever so gently with your lips and run them over it. Suck your partner's tongue like a lollipop.
Get a great tasting lollipop. While you two are enjoying the movie, or some show or anything, suck the lollipop in turn. In the middle, however don't give it to your partner. Your partner has to get it from your mouth.
Marco Polo Kiss
First one of you need to figure out who's marco and who's polo. Then you play the game like Marco and polo. Except instead of just touching them, you have to embrace them in your arms and kiss him/her. It's great fun.
Dive Gear Kiss
While diving in a pool, one person wears a diving mask and the other person has to close their eyes and hold on to the mask-wearing person really close. Then trade the inhaling part of the dive gear. Take a deep breath and take the inhaler part away. Kiss the person wherever or however you like, then switch places. This should only be done with some one you truly trust would not hurt you.
Steam Kiss
You or your partner drink a very hot drink while the other drinks a very icy cold one and see if there's some steam. It's fun because if it doesn't work, just keep trying!
Who Lasts Longer Kiss
Sit very close to each other, your lips almost touching, arms where you please. Sit like this, very close, and see who can go the longest without kissing the other. It's great fun, because you can lose on purpose and still win!
Do What You Want Kiss
This is always fun. One of you just lies there, and the other does whatever he or she wants to give pleasure. Then, you switch roles. See who can give the most satisfying kiss, with the other not participating at all.
Pepper Kiss
Take a hot pepper and roll it on your lips then kiss your partner. It give the kiss a kick. (Note use peppers as hot as you or your partner can take, but not too hot or it will just burn and ruin the kiss.)
Lip Venom
Before you go to kiss your partner, apply lip venom to your lips when he isn't looking. Lip venom is a safe cosmetic item that you can buy at Scarlets and other cosmetic stores and what it does is it draws the blood to your lips, making them red and tingly. A little bit goes a very long way and can still be passed up until probably about a half an hour after applying. When your partner kisses you, he will have this sensual feeling running through his lips for the rest of the day
Candy Kiss
Use some type of hard candy/mint, a great tasting candy is perfect. Either you or your partner place the candy in your/their mouth and then it is like a game of keep away. Whoever starts tries to keep the candy in their mouth while the other person tries to get it in theirs. But you can only use your tongue and lips. This can be very fun if you have the right partner!!! Enjoy.
The Tickle Kiss
In this kiss you make use of the fact that the roof of the mouth is the most ticklish part of the body. Begin a normal French kiss and (be sure your partner understands the game) stroke your tongue across the roof of each other's mouth. This will create almost unbearable chills down your spine and the winner is the person who can stand them because the loser pulls away. The best part about this kiss is that it is different every time and always fun.
Name Kiss
If u have run out of things to do with your tongue spell your name. This works very well and everyone likes
it!
Tongue Wars
Each person tries to get their tongue in the other persons mouth while they try to get their tongue in your mouth. Each person "blocks" the other persons tongue with theirs. The winner gets to pick the next type of kiss. This game is great for reliving first make-out tension.
Starburst Trick
Out a starburst in your mouth, and while French kissing try to unwrap it! Enjoy!
Ring Kiss
What you do is take a ring off your finger and put it on your tongue. Then while you and your partner are French kissing, he tries to slip it on the tip of his tongue! It is a lot of fun!
Tongue Tease
When you're French kissing, if/when you pull back, and before your mouths meet again, you can flick your tongue up and down quickly against the other person who is doing the same. It's very teasing and fun to see how long it lasts. Its hard to resist going strong after a while of flicking.
French Kiss
This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great French kiss.
Relax
You lips should be relaxed, you body should be relaxed, otherwise it will be like kissing a dead fish for the other person. There are only two things involved in a French kiss: your lips and your tongue. That's it!
Open Lips
Your lips should be slightly parted, not open wide like you're at the dentist. Open them just far enough, just like you are regularly breathing through your mouth.
Position
Do not have your face dead on to his/hers, otherwise your noses will touch. You want to move your head to one side just enough so your nose is out of the way of theirs. If you think about it then, with your head tilted one way and his the other way, your mouths will not reach dead on. Your mouths will meet at the corner of the other's mouth. It will look like the picture below.
If you look closely at the picture, you will see that their noses will actually touch the cheek of the other person. Their lips have already touched. When you touch the other person's lips and you stretch your tongue out a bit, your mouths will instinctively open as much as the couple in the picture.
Tongue
Practice on your own if you'd like. Open your mouth enough (while you're by yourself of course!) just enough to stick a bit of your tongue out. It will go past your teeth. Don't stick your entire tongue out... just an inch or two. That is how far you should stick your tongue out in a kiss. So your tongue will go into their mouth and theirs will go into yours. When this happens, both of your tongues will touch. Then just circle the tip of your tongue around the tip of theirs. If they do something different (because you have to remember that everyone kisses differently so some may move their tongue around a bit differently) then just do the same as they do. They may flick their tongue over yours and you can do the same. Or they explore the inside of your mouth with their tongue, do the same thing! Or you can just lightly touch their tongue while they are exploring. The best thing is to NOT just leave your tongue doing nothing.
As for movement of the head, that is entirely up to you. Some people will move their heads very slightly in a small circular motion or figure eight. Sometimes they won't. Sometimes just one person moves their head and the other doesn't. It's totally up to you.
You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.
Relax
You lips should be relaxed, you body should be relaxed, otherwise it will be like kissing a dead fish for the other person. There are only two things involved in a French kiss: your lips and your tongue. That's it!
Open Lips
Your lips should be slightly parted, not open wide like you're at the dentist. Open them just far enough, just like you are regularly breathing through your mouth.
Position
Do not have your face dead on to his/hers, otherwise your noses will touch. You want to move your head to one side just enough so your nose is out of the way of theirs. If you think about it then, with your head tilted one way and his the other way, your mouths will not reach dead on. Your mouths will meet at the corner of the other's mouth. It will look like the picture below.
If you look closely at the picture, you will see that their noses will actually touch the cheek of the other person. Their lips have already touched. When you touch the other person's lips and you stretch your tongue out a bit, your mouths will instinctively open as much as the couple in the picture.
Tongue
Practice on your own if you'd like. Open your mouth enough (while you're by yourself of course!) just enough to stick a bit of your tongue out. It will go past your teeth. Don't stick your entire tongue out... just an inch or two. That is how far you should stick your tongue out in a kiss. So your tongue will go into their mouth and theirs will go into yours. When this happens, both of your tongues will touch. Then just circle the tip of your tongue around the tip of theirs. If they do something different (because you have to remember that everyone kisses differently so some may move their tongue around a bit differently) then just do the same as they do. They may flick their tongue over yours and you can do the same. Or they explore the inside of your mouth with their tongue, do the same thing! Or you can just lightly touch their tongue while they are exploring. The best thing is to NOT just leave your tongue doing nothing.
As for movement of the head, that is entirely up to you. Some people will move their heads very slightly in a small circular motion or figure eight. Sometimes they won't. Sometimes just one person moves their head and the other doesn't. It's totally up to you.
You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.
Different ways to kiss
Chocolate Kiss
Best done with a Mars Bar, 5 Star, or other chocolates like that because there is caramel in that too! Just take a bite and French kiss as you would. Very silky smooth type of kiss, and can end up very messy.
Extremely pleasurable, and even more funny! Perfect for a first date just after a first kiss, or something to do that's a little bit different. A must for anyone, best style of kissing ever!
Feeding Kiss
Just like the chocolate kiss, but you take a bite of chocolate, smash it in your mouth and kiss. When kissing feed your partner. This can be great. this can be done with other food with good taste too.
Milk Kiss
It is the subset of feeding kiss. You sip very good tasting milk. While kissing, release the milk in your partners mouth and keep kissing. The taste of milk will make the kissing experience very good. French kissing is very good during milk kissing.
Suck Kissing
This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.
Nip Kissing
This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your partner. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you've kissed a few times before, otherwise you may shock your partner.
Surprise Kissing
This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.
Vacuum Kissing
This is a playful kiss. While in an open-mouthed kiss, suck in deeply so you're sucking the air from your partner.
Cordial Kissing
Take a sip of your favorite drink, either alcohol or something sweet, and then when your lips meet pour the drink in your partner's mouth. Only take a very small sip.
Butterfly Kissing
Put your eye really close to your partner's cheek and flutter your lashes upon their skin. You can also do this on their lips. This may not involve kissing using lips.
Eskimo Kissing
Touch your partners nose with your nose and rub the noses together. This is very funny and sensual. Try this one. This does not involve kissing using lips, but you can start kissing lips after a while. This will be more sensual
Melt Kissing
Pass an ice cube back and forth in mouth while French kissing.
Glow Stick Frenzy
Pass the mini mouth glow stick back and forth (same thing as melt kissing).
Tongue Sucking
When you have the chance to get really deep into your partners mouth, suck on their tongue as far as you can. Don't suck to hard, you don't want to hurt your partner. Otherwise it's very pleasing!
Sigh Kiss
When you first start kissing your partner gently lick their lips with the tip of your tongue. Then blow or sigh into their lips, causing a tingling feeling that will intensify your kiss for sure.
Pop Kiss
Use pop-rocks, great fun. You've heard of fireworks, this is an explosion!
Tongue Tease
When you're French kissing, if/when you pull back, and before your mouths meet again, you can flick your tongue up and down quickly against the other person who is doing the same. It's very teasing and fun to see how long it lasts. Its hard to resist going strong after a while of flicking.
Spiderman Kiss
It's just like in the movie. You kiss upside down, taking in both of your lower lips and do all those other kisses listed above.
Spitzer Kiss
What you do is when you are ready to kiss (or even while you're Frenching or doing any other kiss) is gently nibble and/or lick the parts just above or below your partner's lip. Now don't slobber all over your partner. Just give enough saliva to get them damp. This is very fun and romantic. It will also turn your partner on or in other words make them like the kiss more.
Lap Kiss
While your partner is laying with his/her head in your lap, lean over and kiss her/him. Your bottom lip will be on your partner's top lip, and vise versa. You can even French kiss while in this position. This kiss is a playful kiss, and it can lead to much more.
Carmex Kiss
If either you or your partner are not carmex junkies, apply a little carmex to your lips and feel the gentle tingle on your lips.
Muzzle Kiss
When kissing the neck of your partner, at one point blow air out of your mouth while pressing the lips down, creating the sound of some sort of... flatulence.! It should be ever so unexpected and quite interesting indeed.
Trade-off Kiss
One of you gets a cinnamon candy and the other a mint. One takes the cinnamon and the other the mint. While French kissing, switch them from time to time. Great fun.
Tongue Ring Kiss
What you do is, if your partner has a tongue ring and the two of you are French kissing, mess with his/her tongue ring while kissing and it gives your partner chills and excitement/happiness because a lot of people with tongue rings love that. Or if the two of you have a tongue ring have a tongue ring WAR! What you do is keep his/her tongue away from your tongue ring, while you're messing with their tongue ring. (NOTE: don't Tangle tongue rings together because that will be a disaster!)
Breath Kiss
In a hot moment - creates major anticipation - barely touch lips with lips slightly parted... then breath your partner's breath... moving heads slowly to experience different sensations... lips touching on and off slightly... it is a very teasing sort of kiss and builds passion tremendously.
Chew Kiss
Tell your partner to place their tongue deeply into mouth deeply... you VERY GENTLY "chew" on the back part of their tongue... do not suck. This will create a sensation in other places that can be very exciting!
Touch Kiss
You do this after you and your partner have Frenched or really kissed alot. What you do is just simply touch tongues - like the tip of your tongue. You may want to move it around but you don't have to. You don't do it inside your mouth you do it out in the open.
Underwater Kiss
Have your partner hold their breath underwater and when he or she taps you give them air.
Moving Kiss
Make sure a bed or couch or chair is behind your partner and when French kissing gently push your partner onto the chair or whatever is behind them. Very good for serious couples or just beginners.
Flavor Kissing
Put a piece of long lasting gum in your mouth (Hubba Bubba, Trident) just before you and your partner French kiss. While kissing pass the gum back and forth, and see how long it takes for the flavor to run out!
Chin Kiss
Hold your partner's chin with your middle, index, and thumb and tilt their head in the right direction. Continue to hold it as you kiss.
Best done with a Mars Bar, 5 Star, or other chocolates like that because there is caramel in that too! Just take a bite and French kiss as you would. Very silky smooth type of kiss, and can end up very messy.
Extremely pleasurable, and even more funny! Perfect for a first date just after a first kiss, or something to do that's a little bit different. A must for anyone, best style of kissing ever!
Feeding Kiss
Just like the chocolate kiss, but you take a bite of chocolate, smash it in your mouth and kiss. When kissing feed your partner. This can be great. this can be done with other food with good taste too.
Milk Kiss
It is the subset of feeding kiss. You sip very good tasting milk. While kissing, release the milk in your partners mouth and keep kissing. The taste of milk will make the kissing experience very good. French kissing is very good during milk kissing.
Suck Kissing
This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.
Nip Kissing
This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your partner. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you've kissed a few times before, otherwise you may shock your partner.
Surprise Kissing
This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.
Vacuum Kissing
This is a playful kiss. While in an open-mouthed kiss, suck in deeply so you're sucking the air from your partner.
Cordial Kissing
Take a sip of your favorite drink, either alcohol or something sweet, and then when your lips meet pour the drink in your partner's mouth. Only take a very small sip.
Butterfly Kissing
Put your eye really close to your partner's cheek and flutter your lashes upon their skin. You can also do this on their lips. This may not involve kissing using lips.
Eskimo Kissing
Touch your partners nose with your nose and rub the noses together. This is very funny and sensual. Try this one. This does not involve kissing using lips, but you can start kissing lips after a while. This will be more sensual
Melt Kissing
Pass an ice cube back and forth in mouth while French kissing.
Glow Stick Frenzy
Pass the mini mouth glow stick back and forth (same thing as melt kissing).
Tongue Sucking
When you have the chance to get really deep into your partners mouth, suck on their tongue as far as you can. Don't suck to hard, you don't want to hurt your partner. Otherwise it's very pleasing!
Sigh Kiss
When you first start kissing your partner gently lick their lips with the tip of your tongue. Then blow or sigh into their lips, causing a tingling feeling that will intensify your kiss for sure.
Pop Kiss
Use pop-rocks, great fun. You've heard of fireworks, this is an explosion!
Tongue Tease
When you're French kissing, if/when you pull back, and before your mouths meet again, you can flick your tongue up and down quickly against the other person who is doing the same. It's very teasing and fun to see how long it lasts. Its hard to resist going strong after a while of flicking.
Spiderman Kiss
It's just like in the movie. You kiss upside down, taking in both of your lower lips and do all those other kisses listed above.
Spitzer Kiss
What you do is when you are ready to kiss (or even while you're Frenching or doing any other kiss) is gently nibble and/or lick the parts just above or below your partner's lip. Now don't slobber all over your partner. Just give enough saliva to get them damp. This is very fun and romantic. It will also turn your partner on or in other words make them like the kiss more.
Lap Kiss
While your partner is laying with his/her head in your lap, lean over and kiss her/him. Your bottom lip will be on your partner's top lip, and vise versa. You can even French kiss while in this position. This kiss is a playful kiss, and it can lead to much more.
Carmex Kiss
If either you or your partner are not carmex junkies, apply a little carmex to your lips and feel the gentle tingle on your lips.
Muzzle Kiss
When kissing the neck of your partner, at one point blow air out of your mouth while pressing the lips down, creating the sound of some sort of... flatulence.! It should be ever so unexpected and quite interesting indeed.
Trade-off Kiss
One of you gets a cinnamon candy and the other a mint. One takes the cinnamon and the other the mint. While French kissing, switch them from time to time. Great fun.
Tongue Ring Kiss
What you do is, if your partner has a tongue ring and the two of you are French kissing, mess with his/her tongue ring while kissing and it gives your partner chills and excitement/happiness because a lot of people with tongue rings love that. Or if the two of you have a tongue ring have a tongue ring WAR! What you do is keep his/her tongue away from your tongue ring, while you're messing with their tongue ring. (NOTE: don't Tangle tongue rings together because that will be a disaster!)
Breath Kiss
In a hot moment - creates major anticipation - barely touch lips with lips slightly parted... then breath your partner's breath... moving heads slowly to experience different sensations... lips touching on and off slightly... it is a very teasing sort of kiss and builds passion tremendously.
Chew Kiss
Tell your partner to place their tongue deeply into mouth deeply... you VERY GENTLY "chew" on the back part of their tongue... do not suck. This will create a sensation in other places that can be very exciting!
Touch Kiss
You do this after you and your partner have Frenched or really kissed alot. What you do is just simply touch tongues - like the tip of your tongue. You may want to move it around but you don't have to. You don't do it inside your mouth you do it out in the open.
Underwater Kiss
Have your partner hold their breath underwater and when he or she taps you give them air.
Moving Kiss
Make sure a bed or couch or chair is behind your partner and when French kissing gently push your partner onto the chair or whatever is behind them. Very good for serious couples or just beginners.
Flavor Kissing
Put a piece of long lasting gum in your mouth (Hubba Bubba, Trident) just before you and your partner French kiss. While kissing pass the gum back and forth, and see how long it takes for the flavor to run out!
Chin Kiss
Hold your partner's chin with your middle, index, and thumb and tilt their head in the right direction. Continue to hold it as you kiss.
Basic tips for kissing
Kissing is very fun and refreshing activity. Beginners however, due to the lack of confidence, are afraid of kissing. There are so many different ways to kiss. The two main basic ones are close-mouthed kissing and French kissing. French kissing involves an open mouth and with tongue, while close-mouthed kissing is pretty self-explanatory. We thought it would be easier for first-time kissers if they knew at least the kissing basics before they try to approach other kisses, such as French kissing. You can also play the game of kissing. This can be very exciting and romantic, but do it as you gain experience in kissing.Great Breath
This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath. If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. If you have to kiss while eating mint, simply sallow it, your partner don't even recognize it. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.
Moist Lips
You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey. And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.
Sallow during kiss
Sallow few times during kissing. This makes your partner feel more connected. It also develops the confidence of your partner in you. This is the act of totally accepting the partner.
Positioning
Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly to one side. If you don't, don't worry about it. Your partner will still tilt their head slightly so your lips meet on a slight angle or they will kiss you straight on. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.
Close Eyes
Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes. Kissing with your eyes open, looking into one another's eyes while you kiss, can be very erotic and some people find it quite enjoyable. You may want to try kissing this way once you're more comfortable kissing your partner.
Open Lips
Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.
Closed Lips
This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.
Hands
There are many ways you can use your hands during a kiss. The most popular way is to put one hand on your partner's waist and the other one against the middle of their back. Other ways to use your hands are to cup your partner's face in your hands (very romantic!), put them around your partner's neck, put them around their waist, hold your partner's upper or lower arms gently, run your finger's through their hair, or just hold their hands in yours.
And there you have it, the basics of kissing! When you try to put them all together in your mind it makes it seem like kissing is very difficult. But when you actually apply them in real life it's quite easy. Kissing is a natural response to show affection for someone and if done with someone you really care about it will feel totally natural.
Monday, March 10, 2008
Kiss For The First Time
You like this guy and he likes spending time with you too. He hasn't said the golden words to you yet but you know that he loves you. You are going out with him tonight and your heart says that something special will happen tonight. Well be prepared for this special night. If he kisses you then make it one that he will remember and make him look forward to things to come.
Be alone
Don't go out in a group if you want to spend time with him alone. Your first kiss has to be special and if you are surrounded by a crowd of people then that will not be possible. Hence ask him to take you out to a quite place or go for a drive or walk.
Don't scare him off
Just as you are nervous, know that your boy-friend is also nervous. Thus relax and make him feel comfortable. Don't scare him off by continuously talking and being occupied with other things. He might think that you are not interested. Give him a chance to make the first move.
Have good breath
While kissing the most important thing is to have a great breath. Make sure to brush and floss before going out on a date. Use breath fresheners to have great breath at all times. If you have eaten anything on your date then keep a gum or mint on hand.
Timing is necessary
You have to know when the moment is right. Like if the conversation stops, your eyes meet and neither of you seems to be able to look away, that is the perfect moment to kiss. At this time don't back off, your body language should say that you want to be kissed.
Let him touch you
Men like to feel women when they are kissing and that really feels great. Thus when you are kissing him don't struggle to keep his hands off because you think that it tickles you. Let him touch your body and feel you.
Close your eyes
Make sure you close your eyes while you are kissing. If your eyes are open your boyfriend might think that you are not enjoying the moment or that he is forcing himself on you. Thus keep your eyes closed and completely immerse yourself in this beautiful experience.
Be alone
Don't go out in a group if you want to spend time with him alone. Your first kiss has to be special and if you are surrounded by a crowd of people then that will not be possible. Hence ask him to take you out to a quite place or go for a drive or walk.
Don't scare him off
Just as you are nervous, know that your boy-friend is also nervous. Thus relax and make him feel comfortable. Don't scare him off by continuously talking and being occupied with other things. He might think that you are not interested. Give him a chance to make the first move.
Have good breath
While kissing the most important thing is to have a great breath. Make sure to brush and floss before going out on a date. Use breath fresheners to have great breath at all times. If you have eaten anything on your date then keep a gum or mint on hand.
Timing is necessary
You have to know when the moment is right. Like if the conversation stops, your eyes meet and neither of you seems to be able to look away, that is the perfect moment to kiss. At this time don't back off, your body language should say that you want to be kissed.
Let him touch you
Men like to feel women when they are kissing and that really feels great. Thus when you are kissing him don't struggle to keep his hands off because you think that it tickles you. Let him touch your body and feel you.
Close your eyes
Make sure you close your eyes while you are kissing. If your eyes are open your boyfriend might think that you are not enjoying the moment or that he is forcing himself on you. Thus keep your eyes closed and completely immerse yourself in this beautiful experience.
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