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| Prepare before you have your first kiss, look into each others eyes |
If you are scared or nervous to have your first kiss, don't be; everyone is nervous for the first time. Here are few tips for planning your first perfect and passionate sensual kiss
- To make a kiss special you can take that person to a special place, surprise them with something personal, compliment them sincerely, FOR GUYS: brush the hair out of her eyes or play with her fingers, hold her face and look at her as if she is the only thing important in the world. This is still applicable when kissing your best friend.
- Keep in mind that many are shy about kissing -- but this doesn't mean they don't want to kiss you. Pay attention to body language. If you think your someone might be suffering from this ailment, try kissing them! Just be mindful of their reaction. If they pull away, or are surprised or otherwise not interested in the kiss, be mature about it and don't take it personally. You can try again later unless you are rebuffed flat out.
- Carry Lip balm or lip gloss (preferably lip balm)
- The fastest way to have a first kiss is just to get close to the person and kiss them. Most people won't complain. However, it is more fun if you spend an intimate evening with that person first.
- A good way to have a first kiss is going to a movie. Simple, but effective. Hopefully your crush will hold your hand - everyone has hormones, after all - and then, gradually get closer until you're as close as you can be without kissing. S/he should get the message soon, and if s/he doesn't, perhaps s/he's just not ready.
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| Make your first kiss a memorable for lifetime. It should be passionate and sensual kiss |
- If you know for a fact he wants to kiss you - for instance, he's told your friends - but he's just nervous, don't be afraid to ASK him! It does work.
- If you don't mind having an impersonal first kiss, join in on a game of Truth or Dare. The most popular dare is to kiss someone. Be warned though: you may end up kissing someone you don't much fancy (unless you get a friend to dare your crush to kiss you). The same is true for Spin the Bottle. Keep in mind you have no control in the latter.
- Avoid kissing straight-on, noses may get in the way.
- Keep your eyes closed, or mostly closed, during a first kiss. It will be awkward to be cross-eyed looking at them while kissing. Nobody wants to open their eyes slightly to find you staring, wide-eyed at them during a first kiss.
- Do not worry about details - how much to tilt your head, when to close your eyes, how long to stay, etc. Everyone has intuition and kissing is a very intuitive activity. It will all turn out fine.
- Don't just kiss someone out of the blue to see what it's like to kiss, have your first kiss with someone you really care for.
