Here are some of the tips for the perfect first kiss for you girls out there.
- Don't Be Too Shy. Girls do want to be kissed.
- Be loyal to her. If you like a girl, don't tell her you love her just to get a kiss, but girls do like being flattered by a guy sharing his feelings for her.
- Try to make your mouth clean. Bad breath is a turn off for a healthy and passionate kiss. Try to
- Have a mint to mask your bad breath.
- Make sure you feel kiss-ably fresh and look kiss-ably fresh.
- Shave or look rough. Most girls prefer a guy with a smooth face, but some like their guy's face rough. Get to know what your girl likes.
- Respect her privacy. Most girls will not want to make out in front of others, especially if this is her first kiss. Find the right time when you can be alone. Privacy is key.
- Watch for signals. Watch carefully, as signals can be confusing - she may flirt with you, then smack you on the head.
- Ask yourself these questions:
- Do you both seem to have a cozy, warm, close time together?
- Has she been flirting with you through body language?
- Has she licked her lips, or bit her lower lip while looking at you? These signs are generally the invitation for kiss.
- Has she found excuses to touch you often?
- If you feel confident of these things, prepare to kiss!
- Make eye contact. If she is comfortable and doesn't look away then she is ready.
- Lean in slowly.
- Don't swoop in like a condor!
- Make it slow, nice, easy, romantic.
- Hold her.
- Do not use a first kiss as your personal excuse to grope, grab, or get too familiar. Be a gentleman, for heaven's sake.
- Reach around her waist, gently draw her toward you, but again, gentlemen, do not squish her up against you and then grind your pelvis against her
- Look into her eyes. Notice how we mention eye contact twice? Very important. Let her know that you are really seeing her.
- Look at her lips.
- Make sure you know where you're going.
- Lean in, and go in for the kiss - don't miss her lips.
- Walk that fine line and make it a really excellent kiss. You don't want to give her a chaste little peck.
- Don't shove your tongue down her throat in the first kiss.
- An excellent first kiss is one that is romantic, tender and memorable.
- Your mouth should not be overly opened or closed, and it shouldn't be mushy or too tight (relax).
- Don't let it go too long (more than, say, 20 seconds) or let it be too short (3 seconds is not enough) - think around 10 seconds or so. A tiny hint of tongue is nice if she seems willing, but make it flirtatious and not insistent.
- Wait for her response. Just remain silent and smile, better yet hug her, ending the first kiss in a lovely, intimate moment.
