Don't let nerves ruin your first kiss. Kiss for the first time the way you always imagined.
Imagine
Don't worry. We've all got an in-built ability to kiss - even primates do it. So it's a natural phenomenon,a bit like breathing, that is difficult to get wrong, and takes a surprisingly little amount of thought.
Evolution and Mother Nature are on your side - a powerful combination, when all that's going against you are a few nerves, and maybe bad breath. Get yourself in the right frame of mind. Instead of dwelling on potential problems, imagine everything going really well. And when the big moment arrives your positive thinking will take over.
Make it happen
Shyness is a natural part of your first kiss, and this will only be made more embarrassing by having an audience. Do what you can to escape sniggering friends and find some privacy.
If you're so shy you find it difficult to even be near the person you secretly like, think of various kissing related games, such as 'spin the bottle' - where you spin a bottle on the ground, and whoever it points at, you must kiss. Or play Sardines, which doesn't involve kissing, but gives you the chance to seek out the person you want to kiss and hide with them. If it's December, use Christmas to your advantage and grab some mistletoe.
The signs
Try not to worry about rejection, because by looking for certain signs, you can decipher the other person's feelings. If they're gazing into your eyes and smiling, there's a good chance they'll be receptive to a kiss.
Teasing, making jokes, and giving you a lot of attention are also good signs. If you want someone to kiss you, give them a clue by flirting and getting close physically. Find an excuse to touch them. If they're still reticent, simply tell them you want to kiss them. Even if they're not interested, they'll be flattered, and it's very unlikely they'll run away screaming.
If things go wrong
So your confidence hasn't failed you, but what if your technique does? Well hopefully it won't if you've read article 'How to Kiss Someone Passionately'. But as it's your first time, things may not go exactly according to plan. So you might find you end up banging teeth, or getting a bit too sloppy. If any of this happens, just laugh it off... and if the other person is cruel about it, they're probably not worth kissing anyway.
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Tuesday, March 11, 2008
Monday, March 10, 2008
Kiss For The First Time
You like this guy and he likes spending time with you too. He hasn't said the golden words to you yet but you know that he loves you. You are going out with him tonight and your heart says that something special will happen tonight. Well be prepared for this special night. If he kisses you then make it one that he will remember and make him look forward to things to come.
Be alone
Don't go out in a group if you want to spend time with him alone. Your first kiss has to be special and if you are surrounded by a crowd of people then that will not be possible. Hence ask him to take you out to a quite place or go for a drive or walk.
Don't scare him off
Just as you are nervous, know that your boy-friend is also nervous. Thus relax and make him feel comfortable. Don't scare him off by continuously talking and being occupied with other things. He might think that you are not interested. Give him a chance to make the first move.
Have good breath
While kissing the most important thing is to have a great breath. Make sure to brush and floss before going out on a date. Use breath fresheners to have great breath at all times. If you have eaten anything on your date then keep a gum or mint on hand.
Timing is necessary
You have to know when the moment is right. Like if the conversation stops, your eyes meet and neither of you seems to be able to look away, that is the perfect moment to kiss. At this time don't back off, your body language should say that you want to be kissed.
Let him touch you
Men like to feel women when they are kissing and that really feels great. Thus when you are kissing him don't struggle to keep his hands off because you think that it tickles you. Let him touch your body and feel you.
Close your eyes
Make sure you close your eyes while you are kissing. If your eyes are open your boyfriend might think that you are not enjoying the moment or that he is forcing himself on you. Thus keep your eyes closed and completely immerse yourself in this beautiful experience.
Be alone
Don't go out in a group if you want to spend time with him alone. Your first kiss has to be special and if you are surrounded by a crowd of people then that will not be possible. Hence ask him to take you out to a quite place or go for a drive or walk.
Don't scare him off
Just as you are nervous, know that your boy-friend is also nervous. Thus relax and make him feel comfortable. Don't scare him off by continuously talking and being occupied with other things. He might think that you are not interested. Give him a chance to make the first move.
Have good breath
While kissing the most important thing is to have a great breath. Make sure to brush and floss before going out on a date. Use breath fresheners to have great breath at all times. If you have eaten anything on your date then keep a gum or mint on hand.
Timing is necessary
You have to know when the moment is right. Like if the conversation stops, your eyes meet and neither of you seems to be able to look away, that is the perfect moment to kiss. At this time don't back off, your body language should say that you want to be kissed.
Let him touch you
Men like to feel women when they are kissing and that really feels great. Thus when you are kissing him don't struggle to keep his hands off because you think that it tickles you. Let him touch your body and feel you.
Close your eyes
Make sure you close your eyes while you are kissing. If your eyes are open your boyfriend might think that you are not enjoying the moment or that he is forcing himself on you. Thus keep your eyes closed and completely immerse yourself in this beautiful experience.
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